I quite like animals. Not in a crazy, dress them up like humans and pretend they’re people kinda way, but I do like them. (Having said that, I definitely officiated at least one wedding between my dogs as a child.)
But animals are great, and despite loving them [and praying that my dogs would go to heaven], I had no problem eating them. Only certain animals of course, like pigs and cows and chickens and goats, though just that one time in India. I never really thought there was any problem with it. I was that person who would joke with vegetarians that I was praying for them to convert back to being an omnivore. (Sorry!)
Eventually though, over a long period of time, I realised that the way we have commoditised animals was problematic for me. Why is it okay to eat the sweet, gentle cow, or the squawking, fluffy chicken but not the dog? Because the dog is cute? Because my pets make me happy? And why is it okay to treat sentient beings, who feel pain, fear and joy, like packages of meat?
I started off by only eating free range meat, because I struggled with the extreme cruelty that animals experienced in the battery farming industry. But eventually, that wasn’t enough. I didn’t need meat to survive. Each animal I ate felt pain, suffered, and died for no other reason than my gustatory pleasure.
(Disclaimer: I realise that the human race ate meat for millennia, in order to survive, but the reality is that I don’t need to. Some people might, and I can say that if I had to eat meat to survive, I would.)
It’s also better for the environment to eat less or no meat. The stats differ slightly depending on the source, but you need approximately 2.5x the amount of land to feed an omnivore than you need to feed a vegetarian. If you go vegan, you use 5x less land. Meat farming uses more water, more land, and creates more waste. I could go on, but this isn’t the place or time, nor is it my primary reason for going veg. It’s worth researching though.
However, most importantly, as a Christian, I was also influenced by the fact that all of creation seemed to matter to God, not just humans. Humans were given responsibility to care for creation, not exploit it for their pleasure. Scripture says that ALL of creation was reconciled to God, and seems to point to a future where ALL of creation will live at peace with itself and with God. I want to be part of bringing that peace now, as much as I can.
I’ve been a vegetarian for a year and half now, and I continue to be surprised by the comments I receive whenever people find out. Most people are respectful and ask loads of questions but some people can be remarkably aggressive in their desire to tell me why I am wrong, which is frustrating when I try so very hard not to do the same. I imagine that people may feel defensive because it’s easy to assume that the vegetarian is judging you as you tuck into your bacon burger. I’m not…well, at least I’m trying not to.
My biggest desire is that people would simply sit down and really consider why they eat meat, and if they are really okay with how the meat they eat is produced. If it’s the norm, like getting married and having children and aspiring to own a house, we rarely stop to question whether or not we really want that for ourselves. Maybe it’s just worth a bit of time, thought and research?
[If you’re interested in one like that shares some of the research Ash alluded to, click here]
[To read the story of MJ and his move towards vegetarianism, click here]
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Awesome blog post 🙂 I’m vegan (and have been for about a year now). It’s amazing how, even though I’ve never tried to force my views on anyone, people automatically become defensive and tell me just how judgemental I am. It’s heartbreaking, to be honest!
Really sorry to hear that Allie. Just looking back at how i used to joke or try and convince my friends why they should be eating meat makes me embarrassed. What a chop i was. Urgh. If you’re up to writing a vegan post, i might be up to publishing it…
Thanks Brett. I wouldn’t mind sharing some of my experiences!
I think doing that in a joking way is fine… To be honest, I’ve worked really hard not to lose my sense of humour, so I can take those jokes… But it’s when someone really attacks you from a dizzy height that it becomes hurtful
brettfish@hotmail.com with a pic of you… yay
I’m sure I can make a plan for a picture as well 🙂
I’ve been a vegan now for approximately 20 years. I’m a Christian and still alive without meat! I would suggest the following great link:
http://freefromharm.org/veganism/christian-basis-veganism/
Thank you so much Barbara.
Something that continually amazes me is how many people react to vegetarians/vegan by trying to pressure them into changing or belittling their views. I have quite a few friends who are vegetarians and I am not. Never once has any of them tried to suggest that I should be vegetarian. Never once has any of them responded in any way if we went to lunch together and I ordered something with chicken. And yet I’ve heard so many times of non-vegetarians being combative with vegetarians. I honestly think it’s because some people feel threatened by it and they would rather argue that you’re wrong then maybe be convinced they should change their lives. Thanks for sharing your story!
I really enjoyed reading that! I was a vegetarian for 9 years. Unfortunately I struggled with anaemia on and off and despite taking tablets, upping my intake of green leafy veg etc, it just didn’t help. Unfortunately I’m not in the financial position to eat free-range at the moment, especially with the adjustment from cooking for one to cooking for two, but I would like to buy free-range in the future and I only eat as much meat as I need to in order to combat my potential for anaemia. Awesome read!
Thank you so much for stopping by, Robyn. Sounds like it has been a bit of a tough journey…
I love it ash! Thanks for sharing your reasoning! I remember when I lived in Cape Town people were harsh on vegetarians. Especially guys who were vegetarians… I am guessing because it goes against the braai culture and some definition of being a South African. I stopped eating meat about a year and a half ago, but I rarely have to defend myself here in Amsterdam… There are always one or two who are really bothered by it. I am curious what drives the aggressive reactions? I absolutely never try to convince other people to stop eating meat. I also never ask people to work around me if it is a problem. If I am out, I just eat the vegetables and if I didn’t have enough food, I eat more at home. Also fun fact, I just had my blood tested and I was worried I would be missing some nutrients (because of the meatless diet) – but my iron and vitamin levels were really good! Better then when I ate meat.
Thanks Sas:)
Totally agree about the weird ideas people have about guys as vegetarians. My guy wrote a blog about that actually, and the weird culture developing around meat…maybe its interesting:)
http://mjphillip.blogspot.com/2015/05/how-we-value-animals-bacon-pets-or.html
I have just creeped your fiancé online and what a great guy he seems to be! Pumped for you two.
Thanks Sas! 🙂
Thanks for stopping by, Saskia. And yes, this is totally what i was talking about – for me even the spoken-in-jest feels like a bit too much but the guys who get more aggressive about it are just completely ridiculous. And it must stem from that secret fear that vegetarians are going to somehow try and force you to join their ranks or something…