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the question of anger

By | August 22nd, 2017|Categories: South Africa, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , , , , |

What do we do with anger on the internet? It's five days later and i have found writing part II of this anger piece pretty difficult. Part I dealt with Jesus and His take on [...]

Dear Fish: What do we do with the anger?

By | August 17th, 2017|Categories: activities, race vibes, South Africa, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, tricky things|Tags: , , , , , |

i received an email from a friend of mine on Facebook who is asking some questions that relate quite strongly to some stuff i have been giving a lot of thought to, especially this last [...]

No Confidence in the No Confidence

By | August 8th, 2017|Categories: positive ideas for change, race vibes, South Africa, things to wrestle with, what i am watching|Tags: , , , |

When i hear the words 'secret ballot' i immediately change them to 'secret ballet' and feel like there is some kind of underground mysterious quite-possibly-Russian dance extravaganza happening that i wasn't invited to. And will [...]

The better Coloured/Black/Indian: an outsider’s perspective

By | August 3rd, 2017|Categories: race vibes, things to wrestle with|Tags: , , , , |

The other day i started a series looking at the concept or idea of 'The better coloured/black/indian'. i am still hoping to share a few more stories on it as they come in, but i [...]

A Frikkin Hashtag: #BadFirstDateLocations

By | August 2nd, 2017|Categories: activities, AFrikkinHashtag, games & Stuff, Hashtag Game, silly things|Tags: , , , , , |

First dates are all about making that good first impression and so we asked you to put your heads together to come up with some places that may not be the best for that. And [...]

The Better Coloured: some thoughts from Terence Mentor

By | July 31st, 2017|Categories: race vibes, shtupidt people, South Africa, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , |

i asked me friend Terence if he would share some thoughts about the concept of 'The Better Coloured' and he came up with these: “Yeah, but you’re one of the good ones” My friend and [...]