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Saying “No” to good things.

i just emailed someone to excuse myself from a creative planning dreaming meeting on Wednesday. i imagine it is going to be an amazing meeting. i believe i would have gotten a lot out of it and also hopefully been able to put a lot into it. But i realised on the weekend, that i don’t have the capacity for that meeting […]

By brettfish|2015-11-30T10:41:11+02:00November 30th, 2015|activities, things to wrestle with, tricky things|3 Comments

When my “Yes!” sounds like a “No!”

i love my wife, the beautiful Val, i really do, and when i love her well, i think i love her really, really well, but when i love her badly, i can REALLY suck at it... one way i have becoming increasingly more aware of doing this is by giving her a "yes" to a question that she asks or a request she makes for me to do something, that sounds a lot more like [...]