Ever since the beautiful val and i got married, God has put relationships [and especially marriage] strongly on my heart as something to pour into, not only for us, but others as well… so i asked a bunch of my married friends [who i think are married well] for one thing that they see as vital/helpful to having a good marriage:

“Work as a team. You both want the team to win, so won’t want to fight against each other.

Give each other space to be yourselves-an ever expanding mentality, not a restricting mentality.

Always have a dream, individually and together, and work toward it.

Be a kind person. Who wouldn’t want to be with a kind person.

Celebrate your differences as well as your similarities. You don’t own your spouse. You are a witness to their life.

Have fun.”

Mal Taylor

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