if u have cats, you could be missing out on a gold mine
if you're not feeding them coffee beans and then sifting through their poo for the digested beans and making high quality expensive coffee, that is... i kid you not - check this out...
i kissed dating, part number one thing
i believe it is imperative that THE NUMBER 1 THING IN YOUR LIFE IS THE NUMBER 1 THING IN HER LIFE [i'm talking guy to girl here, but all of this flows both ways] when it comes to passion and interests and hobbies and so on there is room to have differing, even at times opposing interests, but NOT WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR PRIMARY FOCUS and joy and directional force. in the context of [...]
i kissed dating, part get to know the person first
i really believe this is ONE OF THE FUNDAMENTAL KEYS to a REVOLUTIONISED SYSTEM OF DATING... there is a trend that happens specifically in christian contexts (altho i am sure there are equivalent secular contexts that promote the same thing - like actors making a movie together for example) which contributes to a lot of debris in relationships WHICH COULD EASILY BE AVOIDED... the mathematical equation reads something like 'bunch of christian guys' + 'bunch [...]
i kissed dating, part intro
from the moment the beautiful Val and i got married [and i do mean the moment - an impromptu wedding speech largely aimed at singles and marrieds stretched to 51 minutes apparently] i felt like God had put RELATIONSHIPS on my heart as something that he wants me to focus on, to fight for, to champion. since being married we have been invited to speak at a number of camps and churches on the topic [...]
how to love your man better c/o tbV – be nice
my wife, whom i love, both because i can and because she is well worth it has written another blog in her series on how to love your man better and if you click this piece of writing here it will mystically transport you there so you might be reading of it...
re:cycling
hm. you know, having had a bit of a chance to think about it [once i crawled out from under the pile of stones] i think there is some point to the judgements that have been made. i say 'judgements' because they have come across like that which i find very sad. maybe it's in line with the fact that it's virtually impossible to read tone into emails and so someone might be saying 'hey, [...]
and now for a pill of chill
at a time when my blog has been getting hectically serious and argumentative, i think it's time to toss in some humourousnessityalism: Firstly some David Robertson: "If you’re singing in a wedding, I don’t think it’s fair to make you stop just because the bride and groom don’t know who you are." "If I got to choose for one entire race to be completely wiped off the face of the earth, I would probably go [...]
the ABC of writing a blog, and invoking hate speech and candyfloss
i used to think a blog was just a way to get your thorts down... in a public space because yes someone else might be interested in hearing what you think; or else it was an opportunity to make some laugh or challenge someone about life and living; and of course the opportunity to have moments of complete randomness, because i like random. it helps fill in the gaps. but i'm learning that that is [...]
new audio thort – forgiveness
okay, so haven't quite hit "for the week" yet but i have uploaded a new audio thort on my Tumblr site if you would like to give it a listen and link it to other people if you think it's any good... check it out here
he's not heavy, he's my [klein] brother…
i have a cool friend called kleinfrans [he's not] who is a really rad man, and he has a brain and thinkx about things and i think has some good stuff to say [and him and his rad wife michelle took us to play mashie golf, twice!] and so i wanted to stick up some links to the last three cool things he blogged about: http://ishouldwritemore.wordpress.com/2011/03/04/is-hell-real http://ishouldwritemore.wordpress.com/2011/03/02/zuckerberg-zombies http://ishouldwritemore.wordpress.com/2011/03/01/the-book-you-believe-in enjoy, comment, engage...