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SOUTH AFRICA

These are some of the recent posts that i and others have made to hopefully challenge and encourage and educate you as you try and figure out how to do life better in South Africa. Please feel free to share any of these posts that are helpful with people you think it might help to take one more step towards…

All Lives Smatter – a collection of thoughts about race, painting all people with the same brush and the need for whites to engage with whites

All White Lives Matter – a “Black Lives Matter for Dummies” kind of post

Ask before you leap [to conclusions] – a post looking at how we engage when we engage with others on race

8 Steps to help me become a better ally of my friends of colour – a short but helpful reminder

But pity the mutants – a painful look at how white people are able to feel more empathy for fictional characters and pets than black people

But What Can I Do? – 40 Tips for white South Africans genuinely asking this question

Entitlement with an “i” – a brief glimpse into the problem of entitlement in our country

If I were white, I’d have been able to breathe – guest post by Thandi Nkomo

Race with me – short video clips explaining race issues simply to white people

She turned to me and asked me if being an Umlungu was something i enjoyed.

The Better Black/Coloured/Indian – some friends share stories about the standard of whiteness that has been pressured on them

The queen, my dad, and Sarafina – guest post by Thandi Nkomo

Ways in which white people are better than black people [part I] – a very short post.

Ways in which white people aren’t better than black people [part II] – a more wordier post.

When someone with an African name gives you their “easier” English name.

When the offence is that you’re offended – looking a little deeper into entitlement in South Africa.

What do black people want from me?

By |August 1st, 2016|Categories: South Africa, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , , , |

i am busy reading Eusebius McKaiser's "Run Racist Run!" It has some great and helpful insights, but this piece on white people expecting people of colour to help us not be racist i found really helpful [...]

Breaking Bread with Trevor: #NotOnOurWatch

By |July 18th, 2016|Categories: activities, race vibes, South Africa, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , , |

Have you heard about the #NotOnOurWatch movement of interrupting racism? i have really enjoyed having some back and forth conversations with my friend Trevor [whose work you can see on his Swart Donkey blog] and [...]

Interrupting Whiteness: De-othering your neighbourhood Whatsapp group

By |July 4th, 2016|Categories: activities, challenging thorts, change the world, race vibes, South Africa|Tags: , , |

i really loved this post i read from a friend of mine on Facebook today: My friend just got kicked out a crime watch Whatsapp group in Morningside, Sandton for posting "Just spotted a white [...]

Interrupting Whiteness: Intro

By |July 4th, 2016|Categories: change the world, pain and Hope, race vibes, South Africa, things to wrestle with|Tags: , , |

What does it mean to Interrupt Whiteness? Well, in a world where Whiteness has been raised as a more-than better-than higher-than standard of beauty/worth/intelligence/rightness and so much more, this is clearly something we need to [...]

The friends who are going to end this war

By |June 29th, 2016|Categories: change the world, friends and enemas, inspire-ations, South Africa, things to wrestle with, what i am watching|Tags: , , , , |

So i'm sitting a this coffee shop called Post in Joburg watching these two okes go at it. In the left corner, EFF member Napoleon Webster, who is notorious for having heckled Jacob Zuma at [...]

The day the internet played along

By |June 14th, 2016|Categories: change the world, heroes or heroic moments, inspire-ations, shtupidt people, South Africa|Tags: , , , , |

Yesterday it felt like the internet had a good day! We woke up to be informed that someone had started a crowdfunder on YouCare to raise money to pay the fine that Penny Sparrow received [...]

the man and the coins

By |June 10th, 2016|Categories: challenging thorts, change the world, inspire-ations, South Africa, things to wrestle with|Tags: , , , , |

A man was sitting opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. But a poor widow came [...]

help me understand

By |June 8th, 2016|Categories: challenging thorts, poems and other creativity, shtupidt people, South Africa, things to wrestle with|Tags: , |

i don't get it, you know... i really don't understand how day in, day out you seem to make everything about you and by doing that you lose sight of everything that this thing could [...]

But pity the mutants…

By |June 3rd, 2016|Categories: pain and Hope, South Africa, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , |

The other day my Facebook friend Innocentia shared this X-Men related tweet with me; And i thought it was great because it really brought a strong point home. So i shared it on Facebook. My friend [...]

Quickest way to get rich [legally]

By |June 1st, 2016|Categories: challenging thorts, change the world, South Africa, tricky things|Tags: , , , |

  Want to get rich quick? i'm not particularly interested in it, but i know a lot of people who are.   Well i have discovered a way to legitimately become rich and it is [...]

Inferiority complex in studies: Guest post by Zukisani Zamela

By |May 31st, 2016|Categories: South Africa, stories, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , |

i love this brief story by my friend Zukisani which shows that despite the uneven playing field that so many people start on, it is possible to succeed... but at the same time reminding us [...]

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