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SOUTH AFRICA

These are some of the recent posts that i and others have made to hopefully challenge and encourage and educate you as you try and figure out how to do life better in South Africa. Please feel free to share any of these posts that are helpful with people you think it might help to take one more step towards…

All Lives Smatter – a collection of thoughts about race, painting all people with the same brush and the need for whites to engage with whites

All White Lives Matter – a “Black Lives Matter for Dummies” kind of post

Ask before you leap [to conclusions] – a post looking at how we engage when we engage with others on race

8 Steps to help me become a better ally of my friends of colour – a short but helpful reminder

But pity the mutants – a painful look at how white people are able to feel more empathy for fictional characters and pets than black people

But What Can I Do? – 40 Tips for white South Africans genuinely asking this question

Entitlement with an “i” – a brief glimpse into the problem of entitlement in our country

If I were white, I’d have been able to breathe – guest post by Thandi Nkomo

Race with me – short video clips explaining race issues simply to white people

She turned to me and asked me if being an Umlungu was something i enjoyed.

The Better Black/Coloured/Indian – some friends share stories about the standard of whiteness that has been pressured on them

The queen, my dad, and Sarafina – guest post by Thandi Nkomo

Ways in which white people are better than black people [part I] – a very short post.

Ways in which white people aren’t better than black people [part II] – a more wordier post.

When someone with an African name gives you their “easier” English name.

When the offence is that you’re offended – looking a little deeper into entitlement in South Africa.

Lifehack #73: Fill up with petrol at the same place

By |September 18th, 2019|Categories: inspire-ations, positive ideas for change, South Africa, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , |

When last did you tip the petrol attendant well? i was hanging out with my mate Wayne yesterday [lots of great stories begin with that very line!] and we got to talking. He told [...]

A Vigil of Prayer of Lament for Uyinene

By |September 13th, 2019|Categories: #NotOnOurWatch, activities, pain and Hope, South Africa, what i am watching|Tags: , , , , , |

A new Prayer of Lament Yesterday i was invited to attend another prayer vigil at the Clareinch Post Office where a man killed Uyinene Mrwetyana.  This time it was in my role as a [...]

Some reading for men who are looking to up their game

By |September 9th, 2019|Categories: #NotOnOurWatch, 40 Tips, inspire-ations, real men, South Africa, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , , , , |

Jess Hill's Mission to understand Abusive Men What's Rape Anxiety? This woman explained it to her favourite men and they were shocked. Relax Ladies. Don't be so Uptight. You know you want it. How [...]

Who will wail and sob for Uyinene Mrwetyana? And who will act?

By |September 2nd, 2019|Categories: #NotOnOurWatch, pain and Hope, shtupidt people, South Africa, things to wrestle with|Tags: , , , , |

Her name is Uyinene Mrwetyana. Or is it was? Already? Has it changed from an 'is' to a 'was' in just the few hours since they found her beaten and broken body? i didn't [...]

I don’t want to be right!

By |August 22nd, 2019|Categories: positive ideas for change, South Africa, the great online, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , , , , |

i saw this picture and statement on Facebook today: Count me out. I need a break from South African politics and leadership dynamics. The poverty I have seen today visiting a rural area has [...]

Trying to figure out race vibes on the internet [or off it?]

By |July 30th, 2019|Categories: inspire-ations, positive ideas for change, race vibes, South Africa, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , , |

The internet can be a confusing and scary place to try and figure out race vibes [or parenting/immigration/religion/sexuality and so on...] - if you're brave then check out 'Ozzy Man reviews Arguing on the [...]

Excited to hear the voices Speak Up

By |July 24th, 2019|Categories: inspire-ations, positive ideas for change, Shows & Things, South Africa, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , |

As the army was deployed into certain areas of the Cape Flats and beyond many of us watched with dismay... This is the narrative the rest of the country is given of an area [...]

Why i am reading what i am reading

By |July 23rd, 2019|Categories: inspire-ations, South Africa, what i am reading|Tags: , , , , , |

i am busy reading a book called 'The Man who Founded the ANC' by Bongani Ngqulunga. It is the biography of a man called Pixley ka Isaka Seme [Pixley, son of Isaka Seme] who [...]

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