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SOUTH AFRICA

These are some of the recent posts that i and others have made to hopefully challenge and encourage and educate you as you try and figure out how to do life better in South Africa. Please feel free to share any of these posts that are helpful with people you think it might help to take one more step towards…

All Lives Smatter – a collection of thoughts about race, painting all people with the same brush and the need for whites to engage with whites

All White Lives Matter – a “Black Lives Matter for Dummies” kind of post

Ask before you leap [to conclusions] – a post looking at how we engage when we engage with others on race

8 Steps to help me become a better ally of my friends of colour – a short but helpful reminder

But pity the mutants – a painful look at how white people are able to feel more empathy for fictional characters and pets than black people

But What Can I Do? – 40 Tips for white South Africans genuinely asking this question

Entitlement with an “i” – a brief glimpse into the problem of entitlement in our country

If I were white, I’d have been able to breathe – guest post by Thandi Nkomo

Race with me – short video clips explaining race issues simply to white people

She turned to me and asked me if being an Umlungu was something i enjoyed.

The Better Black/Coloured/Indian – some friends share stories about the standard of whiteness that has been pressured on them

The queen, my dad, and Sarafina – guest post by Thandi Nkomo

Ways in which white people are better than black people [part I] – a very short post.

Ways in which white people aren’t better than black people [part II] – a more wordier post.

When someone with an African name gives you their “easier” English name.

When the offence is that you’re offended – looking a little deeper into entitlement in South Africa.

Open letter to government, business… and me!

By |March 30th, 2020|Categories: challenging thorts, change the world, South Africa|Tags: , , , , |

Imagine a better country! No, that is not a passive dream-about-it suggestion. It's an imperative. As in, while we are spending three weeks largely stuck in our homes, here is an opportunity for all [...]

Another [sigh] Open Letter to the Proteas (team and management)

By |February 27th, 2020|Categories: South Africa, sport and games|Tags: , , , , , |

An Open letter to the South African Mens' Proteas Cricket team... Hi there, Yes, it's me again. Brett "Fish" aka Scuba Steve [That's right, i'm the guy who attended a cricket test at Newlands [...]

We Are Dying Here: a review and recommendation

By |December 3rd, 2019|Categories: real men, South Africa, what i am watching|Tags: , , , , , |

these poems do not let themselves be written without lifting lids and disturbing the dead these poems are hauntings they could not live without bringing buried things back ghosts out of silence bearing witness [...]

16 Days of Activism for No Violence against Women and Children

By |November 25th, 2019|Categories: #NotOnOurWatch, activities, change the world, South Africa|Tags: , , , |

The idea of 16 Days of Activism for No Violence against Women and Children seems crazy to me. When what we obviously need is 365.25 days of Activism for No Violence against women and [...]

What Bishops sex scandal incident has to say about us…

By |October 17th, 2019|Categories: #NotOnOurWatch, real men, shtupidt people, South Africa|Tags: , , , , , |

Yesterday i wrote some thoughts about the Bishops sex scandal where a female teacher allegedly had sex with an 18 year old learner from Bishops. There were possibly more incidents involving other learners, possibly [...]

Why i joined Conversations for a Just South Africa

By |October 3rd, 2019|Categories: pain and Hope, South Africa, the great online, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , |

There is a new group on Facebook that i am a part of called Conversations for a Just South Africa.  At the moment there are around 1500 people in the group and climbing every [...]

40 Tips for Parents: Parts 21-25

By |September 26th, 2019|Categories: 40 Tips, family, positive ideas for change, South Africa|Tags: , , |

Continuing the journey of #40TipsForParents with another five you might find helpful: 40 Tips for Parents: Tip #21 Give them Justice/Compassion/Generosity-flavoured experiences. We have spoken about being honest and dealing with difficult topics when [...]

A few MORE good [South] African books… for children

By |September 19th, 2019|Categories: inspire-ations, positive ideas for change, South Africa, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , , |

What [South] African stories are your children reading?A while back i compiled a list of super amazing books for young children from suggestions made by a lot of my friends, with a specific focus on [...]

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