Singleness – not spoken about enough but for many people a struggle or challenge and for others something to celebrate

i kissed dating: the parts – some thoughts about dating

40 Tips to help you improve your Marriage – some big, some small and all just ideas that may or may not work for you

How to save a marriage [before you need to] – i asked some married friends to share some ideas on what makes marriage work…

How to love your husband/wife better – the parts – a series looking at some different ways you can love your person well

Taboo Topics: Race – Mixed Race Connections – Meet Wendy and Xylon Van Eyck

By |May 12th, 2015|Categories: family, inspire-ations, pain and Hope, relationships, Taboo Topics, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , , |

[Disclaimer: while in Americaland, the term “coloured” is a strongly negative term, in South Africa there is a unique group of people who have come from a heritage of different cultures but now have developed their [...]

the Friday FANatic 28/11/2014

By |Nov 27th, 2014|Categories: change the world, relationships, Taboo Topics, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , , , , , , |

After last week's fairly quiet week on the internet, this week seems to be right back up there with issues or race and transformation taking centre stage, with a sweet injection of Christmas in between. [...]

What my Married Friends would like their Single Friends to know: Meet Lisa van Deventer

By |Nov 26th, 2014|Categories: friends and enemas, relationships, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , |

10 years ago, I was never going to get married. I was a single mom, had my own house, my own business and my own car. I had the freedom to do what I wanted, [...]

What my Single Friends would like their Married Friends to know: Meet Chris Jacobs

By |Nov 25th, 2014|Categories: friends and enemas, relationships, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , , , |

Where do you even begin to describe the real challenges associated with singleness vs. marriage? I run the risk of making myself incredibly vulnerable by the detail I share in this post, but to most [...]

The Importance Of Being Earnest (Sex, Religion and the New South Africa)

By |Nov 19th, 2014|Categories: challenging thorts, God stuff, love and chocolate, relationships, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , |

[a guest post by Sindile Mlingo Vabaza] I will not pretend to have grasped the inherent difficulties in running a country but I think I can confidently assert that if we want not only a [...]