Singleness – not spoken about enough but for many people a struggle or challenge and for others something to celebrate

i kissed dating: the parts – some thoughts about dating

40 Tips to help you improve your Marriage – some big, some small and all just ideas that may or may not work for you

How to save a marriage [before you need to] – i asked some married friends to share some ideas on what makes marriage work…

How to love your husband/wife better – the parts – a series looking at some different ways you can love your person well

More Parenting ideas from non-parents

By |July 28th, 2016|Categories: family, people, relationships, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , |

So yesterday's post looking at Parenting Ideas from non-parents generated a lot of healthy conversation. i had a few more people share some more ideas and while me sharing them is not an endorsement to [...]

Community Parenting: Advice from those who don’t have children. [Intro]

By |July 25th, 2016|Categories: inspire-ations, people, positive ideas for change, relationships, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people|Tags: , , |

Do i as a person without children have anything of worth to offer as advice to those who do? This blog post or mini series comes out of an article i wrote for 1Africa this [...]

Seven years anniversary reflections.

By |July 14th, 2016|Categories: activities, relationships, shtupidt people|Tags: , , , , |

i considered titling this post "Seven years a slave" for the clickbait effect, but didn't for two reasons: [1] That would be horribly offensive to slaves and slavery and the ongoing pseudo-slavery that still happens [...]

Celebrating Ten Years of Rob and Nicky

By |December 10th, 2015|Categories: friends and enemas, heroes or heroic moments, inspire-ations, love and chocolate, marriage, pain and Hope, relationships|Tags: , , , , , |

Today we celebrate the Marriage of my best mate Rob Lloyd and his wife Nicky. We continue to mourn the loss of a dear friend, a husband, a brother, a son, a mentor, a pastor, [...]

Taboo Topics: Race – Mixed Race Connections – Meet Wendy and Xylon Van Eyck

By |May 12th, 2015|Categories: family, inspire-ations, pain and Hope, relationships, Taboo Topics, thorts of other people|Tags: , , , , |

[Disclaimer: while in Americaland, the term “coloured” is a strongly negative term, in South Africa there is a unique group of people who have come from a heritage of different cultures but now have developed their [...]

the Friday FANatic 28/11/2014

By |November 27th, 2014|Categories: change the world, relationships, Taboo Topics, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , , , , , , |

After last week's fairly quiet week on the internet, this week seems to be right back up there with issues or race and transformation taking centre stage, with a sweet injection of Christmas in between. [...]

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