Relationships 2016-12-22T11:54:42+00:00

RELATIONSHIPS

When switching from my old website to my new one, not everything made the jump and so i am creating this as a base page to stick helpful links about Relationships in various shapes and forms.

i have had some incredible people write some super helpful posts on topics ranging from Singleness to Dating to Engagement to Marriage to being Parents of young children when it’s not particularly easy and more. Hopefully soon i will get all the links back in here so that this treasure trove of resources is available to you all.

Thank you for your patience…

 

the Friday FANatic 28/11/2014

By | November 27th, 2014|Categories: change the world, relationships, Taboo Topics, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, what i am reading|Tags: , , , , , , |

After last week's fairly quiet week on the internet, this week seems to be right back up there with issues or race and transformation taking centre stage, with a sweet injection of Christmas in between. [...]

What my Married Friends would like their Single Friends to know: Meet Lisa van Deventer

By | November 26th, 2014|Categories: friends and enemas, relationships, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , |

10 years ago, I was never going to get married. I was a single mom, had my own house, my own business and my own car. I had the freedom to do what I wanted, [...]

What my Single Friends would like their Married Friends to know: Meet Chris Jacobs

By | November 25th, 2014|Categories: friends and enemas, relationships, things to wrestle with, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , , , |

Where do you even begin to describe the real challenges associated with singleness vs. marriage? I run the risk of making myself incredibly vulnerable by the detail I share in this post, but to most [...]

The Importance Of Being Earnest (Sex, Religion and the New South Africa)

By | November 19th, 2014|Categories: challenging thorts, God stuff, love and chocolate, relationships, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , |

[a guest post by Sindile Mlingo Vabaza] I will not pretend to have grasped the inherent difficulties in running a country but I think I can confidently assert that if we want not only a [...]

Race in South Africa: Moving towards a truly Rainbow Nation

By | November 1st, 2014|Categories: challenging thorts, change the world, pain and Hope, relationships, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , |

i have loved the conversations happening on my blog with regards to matters of Race recently. A lot of the posts are specific to South Africa, but i imagine there are themes, ideas and principles that will [...]

First steps in the New South Africa: A response by Sindile Vabaza

By | October 30th, 2014|Categories: challenging thorts, change the world, relationships, thorts of other people, Uncategorized|Tags: , , , , , , |

i have loved the conversation going on in the comments section of the blog piece Nkosi wrote for me on First Steps White South Africans can make towards a really new South Africa. My friend Lex [...]